Apologies for the radio silence, but it’s been quite a week. Friday a week ago I spent rushing to get all necessary paperwork into the hands of my diocesan Standing Committee. Saturday a friend was ordained here at Hogwarts. Sunday I preached twice in the morning at my Massachusetts church, then flew down to North Carolina and preached at my sponsoring congregation, which conveniently meets on Sunday evenings (a terrific idea, IMHO). Then I met with my Commission on Ministry and Standing Committee on Monday, and then flew home again. It was a great trip, actually – saw lots of good friends at my old church, which just keeps getting cooler; and I got to see my friend E and her son, who has crossed that mysterious baby-to-kid line… and the diocesan committees were pleased with me, so I’ll be ordained to the transitional diaconate in June. Yay!
Zag had deeply ambivalent feelings about our friend V’s ordination. He’s very fond of V. When we got to the part of the service where the priests all gather around to lay hands on her, I snuck up close with him so we could watch, but he started saying repeatedly, “I don’t like V to be a priest! I don’t like V to be a priest!” Then he burst into noisy tears, so I whisked him out of the church and off to someplace where we could talk. He told me again, through his tears, “I don’t like V to be a priest!” I asked him what priests do. He said, “They talk in microphones!” … which is funny, of course, but I think was his way of saying that they’re set apart from everybody else. They wear funny clothes and don’t get to sit with their families. Obviously, Zag and I need to start talking this over. He cheered up about V after getting to hug her a couple of times and see that she’s still the same V, but it might take a little more processing when it’s Zag’s own Mama….