So we can cheer each other one without reservation! And I can totally relate … particularly to the unhealthy obsession with MLS listings in potential locations …

And are you and The Other Goddaughter in direct competition for any of these jobs?

If for nothing else, it reminds me that there are others going through the exact same thing i am.

love love,
Mama Jaja

For example, tools: it looks like the original guy got rid of a bunch of tools, which is just a ridiculous idea. Getting rid of expensive, useful tools because of some arbitrary limit on the number of things you can own? Sounds like something you do when you are pitching a book and trying to get on Oprah. Might make a good book but not a good life practice.

#1 – Yea, Rev G, I’m way too lazy (or busy? or both?) to have taken the time to actually research the 100 Things business. I thought about it, but decided that if I tried, I’d probably never get a blog post written, and then I’d feel more guilty (cf. #2). So thanks for the summary. It does sound interesting. And when I look at, for instance, my wardrobe, I can easily imagine that I might have a tidier and more satisfying life if I only owned 50 pieces of clothing, all in good condition, well-fitting, and with a clear role in my life. Still, between art supplies and hair accessories, I’m not going to pare down to 100 total anytime soon…

#2. I like Baba Yaga’s answer. And Yoda’s advice. And all the empathy. Thanks.

#3. I think Zag gets plenty of warm fuzzies too… but I will keep trying to be deliberate about having quality time with him. I really love going off on various small outings with him by ourselves, when we get the chance, and we very rarely fight on those occasions. Probably a good indicator that we both need and enjoy those times.

2. Blog, sew, knit what you want. Who’s watching? But, for myself, I am finding it distressing and curious that my attention span is getting quite short for long-term projects (even something like finishing a novel). But guilt? Nah. It’s a freely chosen askesis, a training of desire and intention. “Do or do not. There is no try.”

3. Think of the broad metaphor of shepherding. I think my mother was my first experience of being guided for my own good. And often that required a sharp, unfriendly tone, at least at first. Just make sure you’re not holding back with the hugs and the “I love you”s and “You’re magnificent, young man”s. My hunch is it’ll even out with steady attention that responds to him appropriately. My two cents.

2. Could you get in touch with the woman who gives you these assignments and ask for extra time?

3. I think probably you’ve already worked this out. If I had to come up with something it would be, more art for everybody.